Tuesday, July 02, 2002
More good advice on Christian dating from Mark Byron. Of course, he utterly fails to address courtship in arranged marriages, and so I suppose it falls to me to do so.
1. Don't look at your fiancee. If she's pretty, you can find out after you're married. If she's not, then you're just going to be depressed for a few months.
2. In fact, don't seek to know anything about her. After you're married, you'll have years to do that stuff. You'll only depress yourself if you find that she's got some apparent flaw.
3. Be sure to begin machinations to arrange spouses for your future children.
1. Don't look at your fiancee. If she's pretty, you can find out after you're married. If she's not, then you're just going to be depressed for a few months.
2. In fact, don't seek to know anything about her. After you're married, you'll have years to do that stuff. You'll only depress yourself if you find that she's got some apparent flaw.
3. Be sure to begin machinations to arrange spouses for your future children.